LUVUME7

Hello - I'm a 40ish, still handsome (and crazy - perhaps a little less of both?) ex-New Yorker who's lived most of my adult life on the West Coast of the United States: San Francisco, Seattle, and LA [yuc*k!]. I've traveled in much of Western/Central Europe and New Zealand, and extensively through Latin America, but with the exception of several extended artist-in-residences and intentional community experiences, I've spent most of my life doing the North American big-city actor-writer-t acher-director 'thing'.

What am I looking for in a female best-friend/lo ver/soul-mate? I know that honesty, tolerance and alert consideration are essential to enjoying a healthy, respectful, mutually inspiring and perhaps enduring relationship. And having spent a good part of the past decade in a 97% monogamous relationship with a slightly older woman (who still loves me, and is kind, sane, yoga-healthy, hard-working and smart-fun-good-looking enough), I'd have to say that whilst I favor such traits, I'd prefer them in different proportions;-( More specifically - I'd like to meet a bright, fit, cute and COURAGEOUS 25-37 year old woman who practices a conscientious but FUN approach to reality, and who is vigorously pursuing clarity of vision, profound creativity and honest contentment. Taking things one step at a time (and SLOWLY), I am open to child-rearing, but great sex is not negotiable. (There are only two kinds of sex: great sex, and everything else...) SO. Are you ready to see what you have not seen, to feel what you have not felt, to be what you have not been? To Live Fully and Without Fear? Let's talk.